Back in the early 1970’s there was a popular television drama about the ‘wife swapping’ activities of couples living in an upmarket neighbourhood in Hertfordshire. Most people remember the series by the infamous ‘key parties’ it portrayed and to this day the media have retained the idea that swapping keys is an integral activity of all swinger parties.
Although the drama was fictitious, the Hertfordshire suburb of Carpenters Park, in which the characters lived, is a real place. What is even more interesting is that one of England’s first regular swinger party venues is a house situated just a short distance from Carpenters Park. The good news for anyone into adult dating in Hertfordshire is that this elegant country home, with its indoor pool and extensive grounds, still hosts adult parties today.
Hertfordshire borders Greater London to the north and is a major part of the London commuter belt. It has a population of 1,078,400 people living in an area of 634 square miles. This means that on average there are 1,699 people living in every square mile of the county. With its tradition of swinger parties and its proximity to London, this level of population density makes Hertfordshire one of the best places to live for anyone wanting repeatedly successful results from adult dating.Getting an idea of how much adult dating activity takes place in the county can be roughly done by taking a look at the numbers of people who have profiles listing Hertfordshire as their home area showing on the biggest adult dating sites.
It is worth noting that it is common practice for many adult dating enthusiasts to register with three or four adult dating clubs at the simultaneously. My research also includes actual membership figures for Hertfordshire taken from non-internet records that I have access to. Both of these factors were taken into account when producing the following figures for the county of Hertfordshire. They are broken down into totals of single males, single females and swinger couples. The grand total was 2700. The number of single males was 950. The number of single females 800 and the number of couples was 950. Any person or couple, reading these figures and thinking about experiencing swinger fun in Hertfordshire, should feel extremely positive about their chances of meeting up with plenty of other broadminded people, intent on enjoying all aspects of adult dating fun.
The country house referred to earlier still runs regular parties for both singles and couples once a month on Friday and Saturday evenings. But it is by no means the only adult party club venue in Hertfordshire. There are several other well established ones, providing regular meeting places for adult dating and swinger parties throughout the county.
In addition to these, Hertfordshire residents who enjoy the swinger lifestyle still like to provide ‘privately hosted parties’ at their own homes. Receiving invitations to them can prove difficult for newcomers but by joining the right adult dating site or swingers club and ensuring that your profile is a really attractive one, it will only be a matter of time before you start getting included in the private invitations.
The secret is to get yourself really well known on the site or club you join. This will invariably require you to learn the etiquette of chat rooms and to spend time cultivating a respected presence in discussions. The problem for a lot of people is they think that signing up with an adult dating club and sitting back to wait for messages is all they need to do. Unfortunately successful adult dating is just like most other interpersonal activity; it requires ‘marketing skills’, determination, effort and a great deal of patience. Accept and apply this philosophy and you will have no difficulty in finding plenty of adult fun in Hertfordshire.